Parmod Sharma quest for peace

Parmod Sharma quest for peace

Parmod Sharma is popular with his International Peace festival organized around Gandhi Jyanti, each year; Inviting deligates from around the world and undertaking activities with the youths of different countries to create a bondge and understanding for lasting peace in the world. With little financial help from the administration, Parmod Sharma raises donations for hosting the International deligtes Parmod Sharma is the promoter of Yuvsatta, a society working for the community at Chandigarh. Born on_______the bio sketch of Parmod Sharma is given below.
I come from a middle class family from erstwhile east Punjab (now Pakistan), and presently settled in Chandigarh in India. Overcoming the travails of partition of India, my family started with modest means. Coming from this background, I groomed through grassroots problems of poverty and middle class families. Having experienced rigors of life, it became a passion to be helpful to others. The idea goaded me to start activities beneficial to the common man. And unlike any formally educated young man, I choose the road towards slums and dedicated my life for the marginalized people and promoting the spirit of volunteering and culture of peace amongst young people worldwide.
I hope you’ll note that activism in developing societies in general and India in particular, is not a paid vacation, unlike in the developed societies of the west. One is not paid to do so; rather one has to pay to engage in any kind of activism, so did I. I started a youth club in college, then a newspaper which frequently changed its periodicity depending upon the resources, founded a non government organization, started a ‘Girl Star Project’ for ‘Girl Child Friendly Cities’, counseling centre’s, created waste management mechanisms, initiated the concept of peace clubs in Schools and above all organized ten international youth peace fests to unite the young people beyond borders to promote nonviolence, volunteerism and work for common good of all.
I am a firm believer in Gandhian ideas of Constructive Programmed based on voluntary effort plus individual & community action, I had also edited two books on the theme of ‘Millennium Without Violence’ and ‘Need for Afro-Asian Dialogue’. Presently working as Coordinator of a Chandigarh based NGO-Yuvsatta (youth for peace), I had done my Master and later M. Phil. from Department of Gandhian & Peace Studies, Panjab University, Chandigarh, India.
Awards& Honors
-ACHAPeace Star Award 2012, Association for Communal Harmony in Asia (ACHA), USA, for promoting peace, harmony and empowering the marginalized
-Education Department, Chandigarh Administration, 2007 & 2008
For working for children from slums & promotion of Peace education in Schools.
– Gandhi Smriti & DarshanSamiti, New Delhi, 2000
for successfully organizing aWorld Youth Conference;
– Blood Bank Society, Chandigarh, India, 1996 and 1999
for the promotion of Blood Donation Movement;
– Vir Deva Foundation, Chandigarh, India, 1997
for social work and humanisticendeavours;
– College Colour,Government College, Chandigarh, India, 1986
for distinctive achievements inNational Cadet Corps (Army Wing).
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She Begged On Streets So She Could Feed Every Orphan She Saw- Inspiring story

A marathi movie on her life “Mee Sindhutai Sapkal” was released, she was interviewed on AIR (Akashvani Mumbai) on many occasions. she really speaks facts with unique style. Salutes to her! read on:

She Begged On Streets So She Could Feed Every Orphan She Saw! Can You Imagine Anyone More Heroic?
Author: Shreya Pareek

Date: August 12, 2014


Sindhutai Sapkal’s life started as being an unwanted child, followed by an abusive husband who abandoned her when she was nine months pregnant. The circumstances she has faced could force anyone to lose courage and succumb to the adverse situations. But Sindhutai emerged stronger with every difficulty she faced and became a ‘mother’ to over 1400 homeless children when she herself was in a hand-to-mouth situation! Read more to know about this unique persona.

Sindhutai Sapkal is much more than just a name. The 68-year-old lady hides many stories behind her strong personality. Full of energy and passion, Sindhutai is commonly referred to as “Mother of Orphans” and as she talks about her life and her children you can see the pain, the troubles and the miseries she has faced and overcome with her hard work during her life time. But, from all the emotions you see on her face, an unusual sense of confidence, which she has derived over the years through her experience, is something you get inspired from.

“I am there for all those who have no one,” she says with a lot of affection. You can see flashes of her life as she talks about her journey and how she became the “mother”. Being an unwanted child, she was nicknamed “Chindhi” which means a torn piece of cloth.

Though her father supported her and was keen on educating her, she could not continue her studies after fourth grade due to family responsibilities and early marriage.

Born on born on 14 November, 1948 at Pimpri Meghe village in Wardha district of Maharashtra, she was keen on completing her education and used Bharadi tree leaves to write as the family could not afford a slate. Her early marriage put an end to her desire to study.

“I was told there are only two processions in a woman’s life; once when she gets married and the other when she dies. Imagine my state of mind when they took me in a procession to my husband’s home in Navargaon forest in Wardha,” she says.

She got married at a tender age of 10 to a 30-year old man. Her abusive husband beat her up and threw her out of the house when she was 20 and nine-months pregnant. She gave birth to a baby girl in a cow shelter outside their house the same day and walked a few kilometres in that condition to her mother’s place, who refused to give shelter to her.

“I cut the umbilical cord with a sharp-edged stone lying nearby,” she recalls. The incident deeply affected her and she thought of committing suicide, but gave up that thought and started begging at railway platforms for food to look after her daughter.

As she spent more time begging, she realized that there are many orphans and children abandoned by their parents. Having faced the difficulties herself, she could feel their pain and she decided to adopt them. She started begging more earnestly in order to feed the many children that she had adopted. Gradually she decided to adopt every child who came across as an orphan and, over a period of time, she emerged as the “mother of orphans”.

Till date she has adopted and nurtured over 1,400 orphans, helped them get an education, got them married and supported them to settle down in life. She is fondly referred to as “mai” (mother). The children are not given up for adoption. She treats them as her own and some of them are now lawyers, doctors and engineers.

“When I was out myself on the streets begging for food and fighting for survival each day, I realized that there are so many orphans who have nobody to go to. I decided to take care of them and raise them as my own,” Sindhutai says.

To eliminate the feeling of partiality among children she gave away her biological daughter to Shrimant Dagdu Sheth Halwai, Pune. Her daughter herself runs an orphanage today.

Sindhutai with her love and compassion has gathered a huge family of 207 sons-in-law, 36 daughters-in-law and over 1000 grandchildren. Till date she continues to fight for the next meal. She does not take support from anyone but still gives speeches to earn her daily bread and butter.

“By God’s grace I had good communication skills. I could go and talk to people and influence them. Hunger made me speak and this became my source of income. I give many speeches at various places and this gets me some money which I use to take care of my children,” she says.

Many years after being abandoned by her husband, he came back to her and apologized for his harsh deeds. Having devoted all her life to the orphans, she forgave him and accepted him as her child, as she could only harbour motherly love for all. She affectionately introduces her 80-year old husband as the eldest child.

For her immense courage and compassion she has received over 500 awards. Whatever amount she received as awards, she used it to construct homes for her children. The construction is still going on and she is constantly looking for more help across the globe to give shape to her dreams.

She has six organizations operating under her name which work for various needs of orphans. “I had no one with me, everyone abandoned me. I knew the pain of being alone and unwanted. I didn’t want anyone to go through the same. And I feel immense pride and pleasure to see some of my children doing so well in their lives. One of my children made a documentary on my life,” she says.

Her life’s story inspired many and a Marathi film called “Mee Sindhutai Sapkal” was made on her which won a national award. “I approached the Maharashtra government several times for help but I never received it. I used to beg earlier to fulfill the needs of my children and I will continue to do so,” she says.

The unusual life of Sindhutai is an inspiration for all of us. Even after facing so many hardships, she stood tall and made her way into everyone’s heart. She proved that if you are dedicated, nothing can stop you from changing the lives of thousands of people around you. We salute this brave lady and hope that the country gives birth to many such strong daughters and mothers.

Know more about Sindhutai and her work through her website.